Bible Notes Online - Judges 16 - ESV
Commentary

v1-4: Samson had further relationships with women which were unwise, and led to conflict. Yet again, these circumstances were directed by God for the blessing of His people, as the influence of the Philistines was lessened.

v5: The Philistines came to Samson's woman, so that she would betray him to them (also 14.15). The scheme of the enemy was turned around by God. Their request indicated their inability to defeat Samson.

v5-6: Samson seems incurable; a third Philistine woman. In men, rather than in women, there can be unhelpful sexual drives. Such things can master us, unless we learn to master them in the power of God.

v7-14: Samson lied to Delilah; this was another indication of his compromise. He put himself in situations where he felt the only option was to lie..

v15-20: The sad saga continued, as Delilah continued day after day, asking for the secret of Samson's strength. He had not spoken of being a Nazirite to God before. Samson told her all his heart. We are not wise to tell precious spiritual things to unbelievers, nor to allow our lives to become tangled up with unbelievers (Matt 7.6; 2 Tim 2.4).

There was little real love between Samson and Delilah; she sold him for a bagful of silver coins.

How sad, as Samson was aroused from his sleep, that he did not know that the Lord had departed from him. He had repeatedly disobeyed God, and betrayed his parents' vows. He would confidently have set about the Philistines, only to discover that he had become like "any other man". In 1 Cor 3.3, Paul criticises the Corinthian Christians for behaving "like mere men." Followers of God are expected to live in a high level of integrity.

v21-22: The Philistines’ joy at capturing their enemy. They put out his eyes, to make him act like a clown.

v23-24: The lords of the Philistines described Samson in glowing terms, their enemy who had laid waste their land and multiplied their dead. We may liken their attitude to that of the Pharisees upon capturing Jesus Christ.

v25: As with Christ, the condemned man was mocked.

v26-31: Samson's final prayer. He had regretted his mistakes, but looked to the Lord to be honoured in his death. God answered his prayer.

Like Christ, his greater work was not his life, but his death.