v1-2: The angels of God meet with Jacob;
- a special encouragement for him;
- following the trials of 20 years with Laban;
- preparation for meeting with Esau;
- a blessing as he has separated from his family.
God never leaves nor forsakes those who belong to Him. "Can a nursing woman forget her child? Then I will not forget you." (Is 49.15)
v3-6: Jacob sends messengers to see Esau. Their news is that he is coming out to meet Jacob for 400 men. Jacob, still fearful of the past, fears the worst.
v7-8: Jacob's fear of Esau means he splits his party into two groups.
v9-12: Jacob's prayer;
- the God who is faithful, for he mentions promises made to Abraham and Isaac, as well as to himself;
- the God who blessed and provided, for Jacob has become rich, as had Abraham and Isaac before him;
- the God who delivers and overrules, for Jacob fears Esau, and has no other route for deliverance.
God has promised that Jacob's descendants will be as numerous as the sand on the seashore; a reference to the nation of Israel. Compare Gal 3.9, where Abraham's descendants are those who have faith, the stars of the heavens.
v13-15: Jacob prepares a present for Esau, reflecting his fear. He selects animals "from what he had with him" (or what came to his hand), at least 550 animals; this indicates that he owns huge flocks. 20 years earlier he crossed the Jordan alone (v10).
v16-21: The present sent to Esau. He sends the present during the night, whilst Jacob will follow the next day.
v22-24: An important night for Jacob. God sends a Man (angel) to him, to wrestle with him "till daybreak."
v25-26: Jacob holds on in perseverance; he prevails and insists on receiving a blessing. There is no request for riches, no plea for protection; just a request for God's blessing, letting God decide what is best. Here is real submission and faith; an utter insistence that God will do what is right.
v27-28: Jacob's name and character changed; from this point there is no more deceit and scheming; he has become a man of dignity, a prince with God. Jacob realises that this incident is important; the place becomes Peniel, the face of God.
Jacob has wrestled and clung, struggled and prevailed; first defiant and striving, and now depending and submitting.
v29: The angel has no name; see Judg 13.18, it is "wonderful." The mystery of this appearance is striking - is this a theophany? A pre-incarnation appearance of Christ? As with Melchizedek the scripture does not intend that we draw an unquestionably simple conclusion; rather that we are amazed at who Christ was and is.
v30: Jacob has met with God. God has met with him;
- taking the initiative;
- making Himself known;
- dealing with a man.
Jacob was available, on his own; we too should make time to be alone and available for God.
v31-32: The meeting left a mark on Jacob. The fact that we meet with God must change us.